My husband cheated on me with two girls online instant messaging. We have two young children. ?
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We have two children and have been married for three years. He recently cheated on me with two girls instant messaging and emailing. He was talking about meeting up with one of them at a hotel. I confronted him about it and he said nothing happend that he was just talking but I also had a affair about a year ago. I really have a hard time trusting him. What do I do?
May 12th, 2008 at 4:38 pm
the two of you shouldnt be married, what you should do is get divorced.
why are you searching his accounts finding stuff he’s doing behind his back, but yet you yourself had the affair a year ago.?
May 15th, 2008 at 2:43 am
HONEY LEAVE HIM!!!!
May 16th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
Why are you mad at your husband for talking to women when you had a full blown affair? You don’t trust him bc you are affraid he will do to you what you did to him. That happens to cheaters and that is one reason why you shouldn’t cheat. Go to counseling!
May 17th, 2008 at 9:49 pm
Looks like an open marriage could work for you folks – won’t take much adjustment.
May 18th, 2008 at 2:50 pm
my god.. give him some space…sheeesh…
May 21st, 2008 at 5:46 pm
Quite often as is your case jealousy and mistrust are symptoms of guilt! You are both guilty and there couldn’t be much love in this relationship or this wouldn’t be the case.
I think you should divorce him and find someone you can trust and hopefully someone you won’t cheat on either!
May 22nd, 2008 at 12:11 am
Your marriage has serious problems, and you’re hardly in a position to throw stones. Your infidelity doesn’t give him permission to cheat, but it’s not fair to make him out as the only bad guy here.
You have good reason not to trust him, and he has good reason not to trust you. If you don’t have trust, it’s difficult to love, and the relationship will eventually crumble. You both need to get into marriage counseling immediately. If you can’t deal with this together, then it’s time to admit the relationship is flawed, and end it.
May 25th, 2008 at 5:54 am
I don’t think he ever really got over your affair, and that may be why he began seeking contact with other ladies. He needs to be honest about where it was going though … although it was only just talking, there was intent involved if they had plans to meet up at a hotel. I think you intercepted him on the way to a full affair.
It sounds like you both need marriage counselling so he can come to terms with what you did in the past, and you can both learn to trust one another again.
May 26th, 2008 at 9:30 am
If u cheated then u r definitely going to think he did too….my best advice to you is to just relax dont get to mad…it was just an online thing…dont sweat it….his still urz no matter what…and if u think his going to cheat…LOOK UR BEST SHOW HIM U STILL GOT IT GOING ON!