If you’re emailing someone of the opposite *** who isn’t your spouse and you met online?
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Jun 23, 2008
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June 25th, 2008 at 1:31 am
No. Does talking with a person of the opposite *** at work count as an emotional affair?
June 26th, 2008 at 12:10 am
to me it depends. if it is out in the open and innocent, no. the measure for me is would you do this if your spouse was sitting there watching? if you would it is innocent and okay, if not you shouldnt be doing it.
June 26th, 2008 at 8:39 am
Your answer lies within the depths of your emotions and intent.
June 26th, 2008 at 11:21 am
Let’s cut to the chase – if it’s all innocent and on the up-and-up, then why can’t your spouse know about it? And if it isn’t, then consider stopping either the emails or your marriage. Choose one, it’s only fair!
June 28th, 2008 at 8:51 am
It’s comprimising your marriage and your are putting yourself in a position to make mistakes you might regret…that’s how affairs begin. If it bothers you enough to have to ask the question about it then you shouldn’t be doing it. You should be using that time and energy to connect with your spouse.
July 1st, 2008 at 1:17 pm
What are you talking about with this person? Is it something you would talk about with your spouse? Does your spouse know about this person? I would think if you are keeping it hidden then it is an emotional affair but if you are just friends and everything is out in the open then it is okay.
July 4th, 2008 at 10:19 pm
Are you hiding it from your spouse?
Then, yes, it is an affair. Cheating doesn’t have to be physical or have to involve cybering. Just the simple act of going outside your relationship for something that you should only be getting from your spouse makes it cheating.
July 7th, 2008 at 3:49 pm
If you are hiding it from your spouse then I think it is a problem.
July 8th, 2008 at 11:57 pm
Doesn’t matter.
You’re apparently not getting the emotional support you need from home and this person fills it.
why does it matter if you are cybering or not? You’re not REALLY doing it, so how can that me an affair anyway?
July 9th, 2008 at 6:37 pm
I hope not!!
WTF is cybering? I’m I that uncool?
July 10th, 2008 at 1:56 pm
How does simply talking to a person become an emotional affair? We all talk to various people each day – online and in person; friends, co-workers, clients, store clerks, you name it. Talking doesn’t constitute an affair.
July 10th, 2008 at 7:56 pm
That depends on the contents of those emails …
but if they are at all romantic / physical / sexual, then, yeah, that is a form of cheating.
July 13th, 2008 at 4:10 pm
I don’t think it is if they know you are married. they could just be friends you can go to and talk to when you need to talk. sometimes it is easier to talk to someone as a friend on-linee than it is to talk to one of your friends you hang out with. I understand why you don’t want to tell your spouse about your on-line friends. but be careful. you never know what the other one is thinking.
July 16th, 2008 at 5:48 pm
Emailing someone of the opposite *** who isn’t your spouse and you met online counts as a friendship.
Don’t complicate things that are really very simple!!
There is no such thing as an emotional affair. What a very silly term. An affair is what two people have when they become physically intimate with one another and maintain a physical relationship despite one or both of them being married.
A friendship is what two people have when they become emotionally attached and indulge in emailing/chatting to keep in touch.
July 19th, 2008 at 1:27 pm
Through investing emotional energy and time with one another outside the marriage relationship, the former platonic friendship can begin to form a strong emotional bond which hurts the intimacy of the marriage relationship.
While there are those who believe that an emotional affair is harmless, most marriage experts view an emotional affair as cheating without having a sexual relationship.
If you answer yes to more than 2 or 3 of these questions, you are courting disaster in your marriage by being in an emotional affair.
Are you experiencing repetitive hostility and conflict in your marriage?
Do you feel an emotional distance from your spouse?
Do you find it difficult to talk with your spouse?
Are you sharing more with your friend than you are with your spouse?
Do you think your friend understands you better than your spouse?
Are you sexually attracted to your friend?
Is the phrase, We’re just friends, your rationalization for your close friendship?
Does your spouse know about your friendship or is your friendship a secret?
Do you look forward to being with your friend more than being with your spouse?
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