Ladies how do you like my list on what is considered cheating for the guys?
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After reading a lot of the answers some of you gals give questions about what is cheating for guys I thought I’d make a lilst of what I learned from you.
Okay guys here is my YA list of cheating actions:
1. Sticking your you know what into her you know what
(that one is pretty basic)
2. emailing or texting another gal.
3. chatting with a gal on the internet.
4. having a myspace account or a similar account.
5. sending a gal pictures or recieving them from her.
6. looking at porn
7. talking to a gal on the phone
8. having lunch with a gal
9. paying attention to a gal at a social function
10. looking at a gal as you walk by her
11. talking about a gal
12. sitting next to a gal at a bar
13 having fantasies about another gal
14. smiling when another gal is near by.
I know that I have probably missed a few here but that is what I remember off the top of my head.
So basically guys… being in the presence of another woman is cheating.
Is there any others???
I feel so sorry for men these days. Sigh..
Hon… a cougar is an older woman.
I just feel sorry that men just can’t be men anymore. Being politically correct is really castrating the male these days.
To the answerers who apparently don’t get it…I am trying to point out how ridiculous this is getting. We women have to start living in reality and get a grip.
July 19th, 2008 at 7:57 am
lol-you sound bitter-
were you a bad boy who got caught?
July 20th, 2008 at 3:25 am
I think you’ve covered all the bases.
July 20th, 2008 at 6:02 pm
This may have something to do with your unhappy relationship.
July 23rd, 2008 at 8:02 pm
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July 26th, 2008 at 4:37 am
i disagree with the **** one,and for a few of these i wouldnt leave my hubby but i would torture him.lol
July 29th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Wow, that’s pretty harsh. It’s true, though, for some women. I don’t know why their men put up with it.
July 31st, 2008 at 10:26 pm
that is the most ridiculous list i have ever read…
August 1st, 2008 at 11:10 am
Your list is far too simplistic. There is a difference between cheating/being unfaithful and disrespecting your wife.
The man’s intention, inner desires or need to boost his ego are often very detectable to women even though many men don’t realize when they’re playing with fire. Women’s intuition enables them to see what their husbands are oblivious to; therefore, wives are always on alert to protect their marriages and keep their insecure husbands from making a mistake.
Most men are clueless in this matter, so I’m not surprised that you don’t get it either!
August 3rd, 2008 at 6:11 pm
way to take the legitimate concerns and feelings of others and twist them into something retarded. thanks!
August 5th, 2008 at 3:33 pm
i agree with 1,2,3,5,7,8, but all the others are just being bitter with a lot of insecurities.
August 6th, 2008 at 4:44 am
OK uh-mm am a guy and to be honest where ever you learn those you need to check them again. because you ladies are ready way to much into this. number 2 6 12 and maybe 14 is wrong . who ever gave you that are just stupid and insecure
August 6th, 2008 at 4:08 pm
*ouch* to my manlihood..
2. emailing or texting another gal.
4. having a myspace account or a similar account.
5. sending a gal pictures or recieving them from her.
7. talking to a gal on the phone
8. having lunch with a gal
i do those often yet it doesn’t upset my fiancee. the reasons why i do those is because i have facebook, my bestfriend is a girl, and i work with a lot of women considering i’m an english teacher.
guess i’m a big fat cheater huh?
August 9th, 2008 at 3:02 am
breathing in the presence of a female, talking to your sister being in the same town where there are women any damned idiot thing you can think of.
August 10th, 2008 at 2:13 pm
Not really – everything in context my friend.
August 11th, 2008 at 7:22 pm
i don’t feel that a lot of these things would constitute cheating….
i think that, if a woman doesn’t like her guy to even look or speak with another female, there are trust issues… which could have been caused long before the couple met. OR she could have good reason to mustrust the guy (but why on earth would anyone, be it woman OR man, be with someone they don’t trust?).
i think that a lot of this stuff could also be about immaturity or lack of self-confidence on the girlfriend’s part.
i’m a woman, and when in a relationship, i don’t talk to random men on the phone or just decide to have lunch with one. there are some limits, and i put myself into my partner’s place…
emailing and texting? well, there are limits, and if we feel we have something to hide from our partners, i guess it could be considered cheating, or just being plain sneaky.
i don’t have a myspace account… not interested, so i know zilch about that.
men look at porn, and women need to get used to it. men are visual creatures, and sometimes they like to look… no harm.. unless it’s an addiction or something.. there’s a difference between looking and being glued to it.
i don’t see why a person (woman OR man) would feel the need to receive pictures of someone of the opposite sex, unless they were looking for another relationship.
there is nothing wrong with socializing with other people, conversing or talking, smiling or even saying hello… i’ve never lived in a bubble when i was in a relationship.
men do LOOK at women, and most of the time, they don’t even realize it.. women need to get over this.
August 14th, 2008 at 8:59 am
what about a *******? was i cheating on my girlfriend for being around my friend of 3 years who happens to be a *******? no.
was i cheating when i hang out with my best friend who is a girl that i’ve known since we were in diapers? no. i have a bunch of girls that are my friends. it doesn’t mean i am a cheater.
i’m a very friendly guy [17], i could be friends with a wall if i tried.
i have 3 sisters and my dad travels a ton for his job soo being around my mom and my sisters only make me learn to respect women. no, just because my dad travels doesn’t mean he cheats on my mom. they’ve been together for 25 years and he’d never do anything to hurt her. i know what not to do to girls. i know never to lay a hand on any woman..i mean, come on the little playful things are okay…cheating is incredibly bad for both our sakes. and not to look at women as *** objects. my girlfriend isn’t my slave.
i text and phone people who happen to be girls. i’m not cheating. as long as i do not flirt, i am not cheating. i do NOT look at ****. i do not have fantasies about other ******. yeah, of course i go out to places with other girls. that doesn’t mean i’m cheating. i smile at girls i happen to know, and pay attention to girls i know in public. that’s the nice thing to do.
i have no clue what planet you are from, but being around other girls isn’t cheating. flirting, looking a porn, getting all handsy on other girls, is all cheating.
i have a myspace and a facebook account….hah yeah, i’ve never flirted with any other girl besides my lovely girlfriend on there. am i cheating by being around family members who are women? no.
what about a *** guy? if i’m around him does that mean i am cheating because he could have an attraction to me? no.
August 16th, 2008 at 3:35 pm
1. this one is kind of obvious
2. only if the emailing/texting gets out of hand, and if you’re secretive about it
3. same as number 2.
4. my husband and I both have one, I don’t see a problem with it
5. pretty much same as number 2 and 3, it shouldn’t get out of hand or secretive
6. looking is normal, but it’s better to open about it with your spouse, be happy if he’s just looking
7. same as number 2, 3 and 5, if it gets out of hand or he talks for a lengthy time and ignores everything else going on, won’t get off the phone for meals or spend time with you or the kids
8. if the person is a friend/sister and if the wife knows
9. if you’re just helping someone out, I don’t see a problem
10. looking is normal, what are you gonna do blind fold him?
11. talking is fine as long as he doesn’t act on it
12. wow, that’s crazy, if all the seats are full I mean come on, it’s a bar, a public place, now if he’s trying to pick her up, that’s different
13. dreams are dreams…if he’s acting on it, that’s different, is he going to fault you for your dreams?
14. wow, if smiling was a crime my hubby would be in prison, he constantly smiles, he can’t help it…he says it’s his look
I only think it’s cheating if it gets out of hand or you act on your thoughts. A lot of it would be fine if we’d just communicate with one another.
August 17th, 2008 at 5:12 pm
I would have to clarify your list. Everything on your except #1 (not even that in some cases) is only cheating when you keep it from her. If you are open with her and are not hiding anything from her then you are not cheating. If she knows about what you are doing and has no problem with it you are not cheating. If you are hiding what you are doing and going behind her back then you ARE cheating. If you are doing something that you know will hurt her then you ARE cheating. There is a big difference between friends that your woman knows about and has no problem with and going berhind her back doing something that you know is wrong and will hurt her.