i caught my husband emailing women he met online about meeting up for ***. ?
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i have been with my husband for 5 years, this is the second time i have caught him looking for *** online, this time he was actually chatting with the women and saying pretty vulgar things. when i confronted him he said it was a mistake and he doesn’t know why he keeps doing it. i told him i can’t keep forgiving him and i decided to end the relationship. i feel like i can’t trust him anymore last time he said he won’t do it and he still did, i just keep feeling like maybe he has done worse and i am so afraid to keep letting him off. its really hard to end the relationship and he said he doesn’t blame me i just hope i have done the right thing somehow i do feel like its the right thing, somehow i don’t. why do men do this?
October 29th, 2008 at 7:29 am
invite a guy over to the house for *** tell your husband it was an accident
he might get the point then
October 31st, 2008 at 4:20 pm
You did the right thing. I am a man and I dont even know how somebody could could cheat on their wife of five years. It makes me sick.
November 2nd, 2008 at 6:38 am
You definitely did the right thing. He was married to you. That is a commitment to a different person and he wasn’t following that.
You deserve better.
November 4th, 2008 at 6:34 pm
Keep him happy at home and he is less likely to do this.
November 5th, 2008 at 5:35 am
This is the reason my first marriage ended. I will let you know something. I felt just like you felt and I decided to give him another chance. We moved to a new state to get a fresh start and we were not there 2 months before he started back emailing her again. We were married 7 years. Been together since we were 12. Do you know how hard it was letting him go, but I knew what had to be done and you know deep down in your heart was has to be done. You can’t keep letting him do this, people only allow what we let them allow. Stand up, be strong, your heart will mend, and God will help you through this if you believe.
November 8th, 2008 at 3:24 pm
because its easier to meet up with ****** for *** online (I dont do it myself) but guys find it much easier spaming girls on myspace to get in there pants, also because they are behind a computer while doing it they feal safe to ask one hundred girls for sex
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November 11th, 2008 at 2:15 am
PPPPPPPPLLLLLLLLEEAAAAAAASSSSE women do it 2!!!!!! why do men get the worse rap and EVERY single woman gets off the hook ? ??????? its been proven that women cheat more than men and the internet is the hottest spot that women do it !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had to get rid of my pages on Black Planet, Myspace and Tagged even though in BIG LETTERZ I said MARRIED – FRIENDS ONLY!!!!! …women came out of the woodworks @ me and many of them married or in a relationship !!! dont bring that here !! ok!!! any ways if he cheated leave him – if u wanna stay – realize he wont stop till he wants to stop …believe it
November 12th, 2008 at 9:04 am
As for the reason why, I would like to know this myself. My bf cheated on me back in November. It wasn’t like something that just happened. It was pre-meditated. He had been conversing with her through an online website for meeting people. He claims it had nothing to do with what I wasn’t doing. I also discovered that he was trying to meet other people as well along the way. When I confronted him, he claimed that he was soooo sorry and that it wouldn’t happen again and we could fix things. So much for that. Since then, we’ve broken up again and it seems like it took him little or no time to move on. I sent a fake msg from an anonymous female to him myspace and of course he responded giving her his number and saying he wanted to hook up. I don’t feel like I can trust him at all. The problem is that we’ve got a son on the way and all of these things have been going on while since I’ve been pregnant.
November 14th, 2008 at 8:35 am
well , some men addicted to *** on line , they need a proffisional help , first , if you love him . then after that you can decide what you want to do
good luck
November 15th, 2008 at 11:37 am
i mean im not married or anything, but i would either divorce him since this seems to be a reoccurring issue or try marriage counseling. try the counseling first. hope this helps and good luck with your marriage, and i hope for your sake this all works out for the best.
November 17th, 2008 at 5:47 pm
The FIRST time should have been your ‘wake up call’, what they do once, the do easier twice, and are really good at it as it goes on. Leave that loser, he has already left you and broken his marriage vow, obviously he doesn’t respect that he’s married in the first place, Get out While you Can,
Men have a ***** for a brain and their brains are all in their *****. That’s what Mother Nature has decreed to insure the survival of the human race, but now, we are over populated and it’s time to stop. Save Yourself a lot of Grief in this one, and just get out of there, save the rest of your life.
November 17th, 2008 at 6:02 pm
U to enjoy every moment of ur husband get ur self involved in every moment he does but do not make him feel u have caught him doing something u did not like. he will leave chatting after few days. to break relations is not the solution to it
November 19th, 2008 at 3:12 am
If you keep forgiving him, he will keep doing it.
November 21st, 2008 at 9:42 pm
ask yourself do you have what he’s after? coz if you have he wont try to get it out there! try to work on your own relationship in deep packets and problem starts out with you. being a man i cant see why i can be aranging casual *** unless my wife doesnt satisfy me personaly. give him attention and comfort in his home. note home is made of man and wife and house is a building for residential purpose. know the difference! be part of solution not part of the problem.. work to solve the problem that is lying ahead of you. note that family is greater than anger and revenge and if you dont repair the ***** in the wall you will later build the whole wall once again
November 23rd, 2008 at 7:35 pm
I would like to respond to your question from the other womans point of view – I am a married 24 years a female and in an open reltionship so there are no secrets between my husband an me. I spend time on the internet and make so many friends and 100% of the times i come across men wanting to chat and the 1st question i will ask them is – Are you married most will not committ however i get alot of them saying yes – i will also ask does your wife know that you are online talking or wanting somthing more and they will respond 9 out of 10 No the lines i get fed are – that she is either boring, or not interested in him or just too busy with the family or she is at work – these comments are always taken with a grian of salt as some of them are genuine and i have befriended quite a few married men who are genuine about their relationship with their wife, and all they are doing is finding someone to talk with that will listen. once you have befriended a married man online its does become quite intense as he can have his cake and eat it to without a commitment and with a click of a button the other woman is gone. and at times a relationship can form with some who become attached to you and there fore emails and texts and phonecalls draw us together it becomes real…. but sometimes its so much easire for the married man to use his family as an excuse once the reltionship is in full swing – he then is in control and calls the shots – no i cant talk tonight my family needs me – then the other woman who has grown attached is in the same boat as the wife and the husband at the click of a button can access any other female in his list of contacts if the other woman who has become attached is wanting more – so the other woman can be played just as the wife can be played and its all for the pleasure of the Husband – for me once i am not in control of the situation and he then becomes the once who is making me wait i pull the plug and say to him – i am the one here allowed to play my husband knows what i am doing what does your woman think. I wont hear from them after that Lol – I dont have time for married men who want to play me – as they have played their wife. I just move on to someone who wants to give me the attention.
Once they are online its addictive even for me as the other woman and we will not give up we just move onto something new as perhaps what your Husband will do he can tell you he will not make contact but its easire said than done, you have to decide wether you want to let him continue to play with your heart. only you can decide what to do, as i will always be online its what i enjoy doing and if a married man connects with me and wants to persue me then if i call the shots all is good for me but he has to make the time i do not wait for them.
i am telling you like it is as i am the other woman. dont judge me for my freedom to be available just find a way to make yourself happy and dont let him play with your heart you are a strong woman you can demand from him to stop. he has to make a choice. you take control.
i just wanted you to hear it from the other womans point of view.
November 24th, 2008 at 2:08 am
am a man and i think u did good,how he can do this much with u