Girlfriend of 6yrs emailing another man?
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My fiance and I have been together for a long time and have been engaged the last year.
Anyway, I stumble upon her email account looking for an old email address and I find a large list of emails from another man. She has only briefly talked about meeting this guy while she was on vacation but the substance I found in the emails seemed to be extremely personal. She mentions nothing of me and avoids telling him of my family and has written things like, I wish you were here, when can you come, I miss the company, I can’t wait to see you again. They share the exact same beliefs etc.
The final thing that worries me is that they have talked about the memories they share at a specific area they were at on holidays in a secret discourse. I am going completely insane, I don’t know what to think considering she obviously is avoiding or hasn’t told this guy that she’s in a relationship we me. ARRGH, what the hell do I do???? I don’t understand because there is nothing wrong with our relationship, why would she even consider keeping her option open or maybe she thinks she’s found something better than me.
Should I confront her on this or wait and see what happens considering he is not in the country????
February 1st, 2009 at 4:29 am
e-mail him as if you’re her and tell him about you. then confront her. that’s what i’d do.
February 1st, 2009 at 3:21 pm
Man I found the same thing when I went through my girlfriends cell phone and read her text messages…I confronted her about it, apologized for invading her privacy, then I broke up with her…..you gotta do what you gotta do….in my opinion confront her but be nice about it, no matter how hard it is
February 4th, 2009 at 7:15 am
yeah i think you should
if you are going to get married you should talk to her about it
before you guys get married and she cheats on you!!!!! print out the emails and ask her who he is and why didnt she mention you
February 5th, 2009 at 1:48 am
Ask if she loves that other guy. If Yes then leave her for her happniess i know you wil be hurt a lot. but love should be more giving than receiving. Good guys can always find happiness in there life.
So chill dude. Be the person who has big heart
February 6th, 2009 at 7:32 am
Sorry about that but its not nice to spy.