My mom cheating? online?
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Uhhh idk even know were to start but my dad just said today that he didnt wanna have marital relations with my mom any more and then i went online and found this thing that my mom has been emailing different men and saying she would like to *** with anyone no strings attached but i wash snooping only this is the second time she has done this: the first time she emailed some guy and they just talked about *** but never met so do i leave this alone or do i confront her and idk just help cuz i have ocd and other anixiety problems and this isnt helping THANKS!
January 26th, 2009 at 4:49 am
I feel so bad for you. so wrong what your parents are doing to you…talk to a school councilor
January 29th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
just mind your business
January 31st, 2009 at 12:37 pm
You need to either talk to a school counsler or most important your parents – get them to tell you what is going on so you hear it from them
February 2nd, 2009 at 2:52 am
Make your mom understand that what she does to daddy she does to you as well. It would kinda **** to invite a bf home to meet the parents and having to explain him that daddy doesnt live home with the rest of the family, but in a shabby appartment because he has been taken to the cleaners by his cheating wife. You would end up being used for *** untill they tire of you never seeing a ring on your finger.
February 4th, 2009 at 4:20 pm
LOL ur mum is a hoe!
phone up the show cheaters and dob on that skanky hoe.
February 4th, 2009 at 11:32 pm
Stay out of it that is a part of your mom and dads life that has nothing to do with you, so don’t be disrespectful, I doubt seriously that your dad talked about his lack of interest in your mother sexually in front of you, so stop snooping and leave them alone.
February 6th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
Leave this alone. Your parents marriage is obviously in deep trouble. Obviously, one (most likely) both of your parents are cheating. This is so messed up and complicated that you just can’t fix it. Talk to your school counsellor or your doctor. Your parents are obviously too busy worrying about themselves to care for you correctly. This isn’t your fault, but they aren’t going to be able to listen to you when they are making as little sense as they are now.
February 9th, 2009 at 4:39 am
oh damn…. thats pretty harsh…. well the best thing to do is to decide whethor or not you can positivly contribute to this problem and if you can stand up to your mom without being afraid to tell her what you have to say
February 11th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
First of all, it is not your responsiblity to get involved in an issue between your mom and your dad. You are their child and it is their job to give you a stable, emotionally healthy home.
It sounds like both your mom and your dad don’t want to be together anymore. If that happens, it is not something in your control — and you should not hold yourself responsible for any of their choices.
Talk with your guidance counselor, your pastor, or (since you have mentioned OCD and anxiety), your regular therapist. Your mom’s behavior, if it continues, will lead to grounds for divorce — and even if not, you shouldn’t be exposed to her infidelity or sexual activity online or anywhere else.
When adults start behaving like children (selfishly, irresponsibly, or immaturely), it forces their children to become more adult — if only to protect their own feelings and establish their own boundaries. I hope this isn’t the case for you — and I hope you will find people in your life who can provide you with support in the ways you need.
February 14th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
This my dear is a conversation that should NEVER have included you…I’m really sorry you have been involved in this.
February 18th, 2009 at 11:15 am
I think you need to confront her…in private…tell her how it makes you feel..and that you only want the best for your parents relationship…. that u did not mean to snoop around her business…since she might take it the wrong way…make sure u stay in the subject of how bad it makes you feel to see her doing something like that…tell her that you love her…what ever you try to do..just make sure u get through to her about ur emotions..if you feel as if it might be getting worse..or your father finds out…just leave it at that..there is no point for you to intervene I wish you good lucK