Should I go? I mean our chemistry is amazing online?
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am 24. I play the game SecondLife. I would say I’m addicted. I met a guy on that game. He is 28. He lives 3,000 miles away from me. He is anti-social, super shy and lives with is mother. We began talking on the phone, skyping, emailing and after a couple of months he began telling me how much he loves me and how much I love him too! He tells me he needs me and wants me and how I’ll never know just how much he loves me.
Well turns out he had been seeing this girl in real life but after two months she dumped him because she didn’t like the fact that he had met a girl online. He seemed torn between her and I. Well she dumped him 3 weeks ago and he seemed good with that. She was his first!!!
Okay so I fly out to see him in 4 days. I’m staying the entire week with him. Will this workout and will he never call her again? I mean if I give him good loving our online affair will turn into mad love right? He’ll leave that girl in the dust!!!!
After this woman broke up with him he seemed a bit strange by leaving her messages on his myspace headline like crazy ***** free and sending her one hehehe email that I read. I know this woman wrote him an apology letter cause he forwarded it to me saying he wasn’t going to respond to it.
Just wanna make sure that our love is real and he won’t run back to her after I leave.
I know they had an amazing love affair that was full of passion (I know cause I read her online blogs).
1 hour ago
Yes he was overweight but he lost most of it – I see him online and he looks HOT.
His real life girlfriend was just a friends w/ benefits….he didn’t want more with her because of me. He started seeing her the same time he started talking w/ me and he told her that he only wanted to have *** w/ her because he was falling in love w/ me. When she began to fall for him she broke up with him cause she didn’t want to compete w/ me! I’m 24 and she is 32. She is a professional woman and they didn’t
didn’t have anything in common except intimacy! I asked her this in email.
The other girl is real…I know for sure. I’m just a little worried that it won’t work out in real life or perhaps after meeting me he might try to run back to her eventhough I doubt she’d take him back as she seemed pretty done w/ him.
May 15th, 2009 at 12:53 am
This guy seems like a player. If he would ‘forward’ his g/f’s email to you, what do you think he’s doing with your emails?
Do you really know him? He may be an axe murderer.
May 16th, 2009 at 10:36 pm
Do not board that plane. See if you can get a refund on your tickets and stay your a** home. This boy needs to clean up the mess that is his own life before he goes messing up yours.
May 20th, 2009 at 1:02 am
Okay, I’ve met up with guys online, but they have always been very local, like 40 miles at the most.
So you obviously get on great, but you must remember to keep an open mind, until you meet face to face you can never be 100% sure, so try and keep that mind open to save yourself in case the worst happens.
You need to approach this carefully and with your eyes open. Don’t have huge expectations and make sure he feels the same. Make sure that the only thing you do expect is to have a good time. Go and meet him, talk, go out get to know each other, but please keep your mind open and be careful. I have met guys online and it has been perfect when we met, other times, I have to say, we’ve been ‘perfect for each other, the best thing ever’ before we met and then it’s gone wrong.
Anything can happen, good or bad, I can’t say what, but relax, be careful and most of all enjoy yourself!
May 23rd, 2009 at 6:06 am
it’s a big mistake