. 2 women. and the online men who disappeared?
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I have 2 online women friends who both have basically the same story. Both of them had online relationships, for many years, with men. One woman actually met the man in person .. the other did not meet the man in person. Both women, and both men, were friends every single day .. they shared a warm friendship. The women did not put an pressure on the men for anything. Suddenly - both men just stopped emailing the women. The men did not say good-bye .. or anything .. they just stopped emailing. Both women found out that the men did not die or anything. Both men could have easily told the women good-bye .. it would have been ok with both women .. in fact, both woman would have thought better of the men if they would have said goodbye. Why do men do this .. just stop .. and disappear like poof .. without a single word .. to friends ? What is your opinion ? Pls do not sent silly answers - they do no good - and it takes time to read them.
June 27th, 2009 at 1:19 pm
HA HA They got caught by there wife that’s why communication suddenly stopped LOL
June 30th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
I just had this happen to me too they are inconsiderate jerks! Don’t they know us women worry I don’t care that he no longer talks to me but geesh ya a goodbye would of been good
July 2nd, 2009 at 5:44 pm
More than like, these men did indeed have wives who found out about it. What kind of person is seriously satisfied with an online relationship? If you don’t take it offline pretty quickly, it’s not a real relationship. They were married. Both of them.
July 5th, 2009 at 7:58 am
Because its easier for them just to drop all contact rather than say goodbye and risk putting up with ‘a scene’. This is what they were probably afraid of. Online relationships aren’t real life - maybe they just got fed up with it all and now have real relationships.
July 7th, 2009 at 5:50 am
When we’re done, we’re done. We’ve moved on an want to minimize the break-up drama. Who needs that estrogen-based hassle when you can instead just disappear?
July 8th, 2009 at 10:24 am
men disappear
that’s what they do best LOL
best way to avoid any confrontation
that’s just the way with men
or
maybe they are afraid that they might hurt women’s feelings by saying good bye
or
they want to keep their options open
whatever is that they are doing not working out they can still come back to the women
but then again
since they were just friens why would it matter?/
imagine some men leave their gfs or wives out of blue LOL
as i said before
LEAVING IS WHAT MEN DO BEST
LEAVING WITH A NOTICE IS WHAT MEN DO EXPERTLY
July 10th, 2009 at 5:51 am
Usually because women start talking about the relationship What relationship?? We were just flirting!
July 10th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
I’ve been online dating off and on for a couple of years. I’ve also read The Rule for Online Dating. It’s a great book.
When a woman engages in an e-mail romance with a guy, and he never wants to take the relationship to the next level, that’s proof that he’s either married or just messing around because he’s bored.
The general rule is that the guy must ask you out or at least ask for your phone number within 4 e-mails. Then, he must suggest meeting in person, at which point a regular dating relationship begins. A guy who drags it out any longer is just having fun, and not interested in really dating anyone.
July 10th, 2009 at 10:23 pm
Don’t waste your time on-line. Most men are just here to flirt.
July 13th, 2009 at 8:37 pm
From past experience I can tell you that an online relationship reallly doesn’t exist for men. For women yes. They form that relationship from feelings. Men play the games but when a REAL relationship happens they forget everybody online.
July 15th, 2009 at 3:25 am
They indeed got caught by their wives and were given the ultimatum.
July 15th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
Men view relationships different from women.
Men can stop hanging around or talking to another man for years and then out of the blue call them and pick up where they left off. Since its an online relationship it very likely they are viewing it like a relationship with a male and don’t see anything wrong with taking a break.
July 16th, 2009 at 2:05 pm
Hi
They probably found someone else they were interested in, and they just disappeared because they didn’t want to face any drama from the women. Or they are probably married, and their wives caught them, or maybe they simply lost interest.
July 18th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
Well, men…just do these (stupid) things with no consideration at all for others’ feelings.
I once knew a couple in an ‘arranged marriage’ sort of relationship. They talked on the phone for hours per day though they never met personally. Wedding plans were being initiated.
Then, one day the guy just stopped calling and switched phone numbers. The girls’ parents who matched them tried to locate the guy, to no avail. He left and moved to another city and moved in with his previous girfriend.
I was just an observer from afar but i knew the girl was super hurt and humiliated because she already started telling people she was engaged and was coming up with a list of sponsors! The guy was totally inconsiderate. This incidence taught me a lot about guys.
So be on the look out! If you get into a relationship, any relationship, hope for the best but expect the worst, including a disappearing act as this case may be.
Tell your friends not to lose bad feelings on such undeserving jerks!