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What should I do about this friend? Is this acceptable?



For the last 3 weeks I have been feeling a little blue but am not sure why. I am usually a really happy person but I guess we all have our bad days. Usually I just become a hermit till i work out what is bugging me and then I take steps to fix it. Anyway after two weeks lying on the couch and still no closer to working out why i feel this way I called my friend and asked if she wanted to hit the town. She said she didn’t feel like it but then decided that she did after all. Eventually I told her I’d been feeling a bit blue and her responce was this Don’t drag me out if your not in a good mood. Anyway I said I was tired and went home and I feel much better now but what she said still bugs me. I have listened to her drama’s my whole life (and there are plenty of them) I have never told her when I’m upset, cried on her shoulder or anything ever. Anyway she is supposed to be my best friend and we have known each other for 10 years (we are 25 and grew up next door to each other). I still like her, she is funny and has a lot of good points but to be honest I’m starting to think this friendship is all one sided. Do you think I should just acccept that this is just one flaw and still treat her the same or should I start to weed her out of my life slowly? In the past year their have been a lot of instances that have annoyed me. Example - we had an argument over washing powder which turned into her emailing me a list of all the things she hates about me - such as my thighs are fat, I have no fashion sence. (she still deny’s she sent this email - she reckons her boyfriend had her account password and that him and his mates sent it) I’ really don’t think this is true as I know him quite well and we have never had a problem.
Sorry, we all are getting sidetracked byt the emai/ boyfriend example - am more interested in what happened the other night - but thanks for your answers anyway

I’m debating whether or not to keep emailing a friend.advice welcome.keep reading for details?



I’m 28 married, I have a girl friend who is 32 single. We’ve known each other for 10 yrs. 3 years ago, the time I met my now husband, she was diagnosed with epilepsy. She hasn’t driven since and her condition has worsened. She had to move back home with her parents, and she never dates anymore. She wasn’t happy when I got married because she loved us both to be single so we could go out and party together; now all we do is email. I don’t get together with her because she might have a seizure. She used to write to me several times a day but as of recently, it has dwindled to once every 2 weeks. She claims it’s whenever her computer lets her get online. I really have no reason to keep in touch with her anymore - and am wondering if this would be a good time just to stop emailing. It seems time to move on…that we no longer have anything in common and we’re on two different levels - and I think she feels the same but doesn’t know how to say it. Is this the right thing to do?

Giving my mobile no. to an internet ‘friend’?



Hey…

I’m unsure as to give my mobile number to someone I talk to online.

I’m a member of a youtube group which is like a forum for you to talk to people with similar interests.

We then started emailing and I’m part of his big emailing list.

Lots of people in the group supposedly have his mobile number.

It’s a BNP youtube group.

I’m still quite young and I’m worried that he could just be a con and then a nutter will have my phone number.

I’m pretty sure he;s OK.

Is there a way I can talk to him.

Maybe I should go out of town to a phone box and ring him. Therefore he doesn’t know my mobile number or where I was when I made the call.

How can I ‘withhold’ my number on my phone?

thanks

He wants me to text him and then he’ll give me a call.

online friends?



ok. through this site, many people have emailed me and asked if i was willing to be their online friend. i agree and we start emailing each other. it goes really well for 4-5 days. long mails about oneself, interests and all. then suddenly they stop emailing me. its abrupt. i still send mails and all but i never get a reply back. its so heartbreaking. thay tell u that they’re looking for a friend and are really lonely. then when i reply, they are overjoyed. then, after some days, they stop completely and i keep waiting for a reply , coz i like to make friends and no one keeps in touch. its happened 7 times. i feel miserable… why do people do that? i am still waiting for them to send me mails and they’re just like they dont exist. i even send them mails asking if evrythigs allright and why they’re not replying. and i have NEVER written anything bad or abusive in my mails. then why do people do that?? i am feeling really bad.

How do I get her off my back?



OMW! There is this really annoying girl in my class. She is like a leech! She is really touchy and LOUD! She is a showoff. She is rude and mean and the list goes on and on! She is always emailing me hanging out with me following me and all that stuff so how do I get her off my back? I don’t mean to be mean but I just reallly want her to back off.
i dont wanna say anything i just want signals or sumthing lkike that
well we’re 13 im not gonna sue her

Do you send mass emails out to friends?



I recently sent a mass email out to friends about taking a little break from playdates and playgroup and one friend, who I’m not that close with - at least not like I am with my best friends, got offended and thought I should have emailed her individually. I always send out mass emails about things and didn’t think it was a big deal when I explained in my email, in detail, why I was taking a little break. I didn’t have time or the energy to email every single person in the email individually and tell them why I was taking a hiatus from having playdates. Would you find this offensive?

daniel brown age 21 mattapan boston mass, had his email address i lost it can u help me?



i just need to email him i have no other means of contact with him but i have forgotten his email address my computer had been reset and everything was erased and damaged can u help me. if you feel this is to much to ask then just email him my email address please no problem at all