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I have 2 online women friends who both have basically the same story. Both of them had online relationships, for many years, with men. One woman actually met the man in person .. the other did not meet the man in person. Both women, and both men, were friends every single day .. they shared a warm friendship. The women did not put an pressure on the men for anything. Suddenly - both men just stopped emailing the women. The men did not say good-bye .. or anything .. they just stopped emailing. Both women found out that the men did not die or anything. Both men could have easily told the women good-bye .. it would have been ok with both women .. in fact, both woman would have thought better of the men if they would have said goodbye. Why do men do this .. just stop .. and disappear like poof .. without a single word .. to friends ? What is your opinion ? Pls do not sent silly answers - they do no good - and it takes time to read them.

My husband and I have known each other for over 3 years, we’ve been married 6 months. We met online. We chatted for over 2 months before we met in person. When we first started dating seriously I assumed he stopped communicating with other women online. Wrong! There is at least one women that he would email back and forth, send pictures back and forth and talk sexual to. I confronted him once when I found an email. He said it wouldn’t happen again. Then just yesterday I was looking at his old cell phone to find an address of a friend and found some text messages from the same women. They were only a month old and its been several months before when I confronted him the first time. He says he is sorry and feels really bad for hurting me, but I just don’t know if I can trust him. I know he loves me, but why isn’t that enough? I’m so confused!

Uhhh idk even know were to start but my dad just said today that he didnt wanna have marital relations with my mom any more and then i went online and found this thing that my mom has been emailing different men and saying she would like to *** with anyone no strings attached but i wash snooping only this is the second time she has done this: the first time she emailed some guy and they just talked about *** but never met so do i leave this alone or do i confront her and idk just help cuz i have ocd and other anixiety problems and this isnt helping THANKS!

Ok–here is my story, any advice is greatly needed and appreciated. I met my husband when we were both 25, independant college grads and professionals (he a mil. officer, me a teacher). We dated for over 2 yrs before we got married and everything was close to perfect. Yes, we had our normal spats but he always acted so in love with me and all of my friends were so jealous….Well, after being married for only a month I got on the laptop and noticed he had left his email up, out of pure curiousity, I clicked on his messages (never in a million years intended on finding anything), well it showed he had been emailing a woman for almost **** pics of herself. He replied a few times saying, thanks that made my day and how beautiful she was. Well this was such blow because not to brag, I am a very attractive person. We have a great *** life and we love experimenting and we are both very sexual. The woman he emailed was a woman from a football message bd he visited and she would never email him directly, it was just a mass email of the men that asked her to (after she offered). Well, I confronted him and he was VERY remorsefull and apologized and said it was stupid and he would NEVER do it again.
I figured out his password to his email and checked it frequently. Well, I eventually forgave and he was called to go back to Iraq for a 15 month deployment. Let me back up for a moment the first time he was in Iraq (before we dated)he told me he had a brief sexual relationship with another soldier over there, but I never cared since he was single and it was before me. Well, he wasnt over there a month before I found out he was emailing her asking her for a **** pic of herself, they flirted back and forth and of course I confronted him AGAIN. And AGAIN he was extremely remorseful and begged for forgiveness and even cried to me, saying he couldnt live without me, etc……Well, I forgave AGAIN. After a few months I started to heal and get over it, well I checked his email out of the blue a few days ago and I found another email from her that said, I am sorry for slapping you. Of course this was such a blow and KILLED me and once I again I confronted him……He admitted they had been emailing on his military acct and he even forwarded some of them to me. He said she slapped him when they walked by each other and he swore on my life he has never cheated, I have begged him to tell me if he cheated and he is adament that he never did. The emails were flirting talking about sending **** pics and even maybe meeting…..
I am crushed…He has promised to get counseling when he gets back and is extremely remorseful. I guess I need advice. Will he EVER change? Could counseling indeed help? He won’t be home for another 11 months and I have to worry about what he is doing. I am distraught and disgusted. The way I see it, it would be a lot easier to get out now then later, but is this grounds for divorce? Should I forgive him? What do I do???

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She was emailing him pictures while the kids and I were at church. She claimed she was to sick to go but was feeling good enough to chat and send pics to him. I confronted her and asked her to end the online relationship. She said she would. A week later I found she had been texting him on the 4th of July while I was playing with the kids. I confronted her again asked her to remove him from her IM list. I found out she is still texting and emailing him a month later although not *** rated. She has started to come to bed at 3-5 am again. She is unwilling to go to marriage counseling. When I got married I was trying to marry a partner not a child that I would have to discipline. In general she is a good wife but can be high spirited and difficult to deal with. We have a good relationship but this is starting to take its toll. What do I do next? Should I cut the internet at the house and disconnect her mobile? Or just overlook it and hope it all goes away?

and you bring up talking on webcam and they start acting funny, what would you think? This is the second time this is happening to me!! The first guy totally got weird after i mentioned it. He told me he didn’t have a webcam then the emails dwindled from there. But the thing is i’m like 90% sure that he’s not lying about his pics. I facebooked him and i saw his pic on there too (i didn’t add him or anything.. i just saw his pic and in general, i just didn’t feel that he was lying but of course, you never know w/ ppl you meet online).
The second guy had said on his profile that he’s White. But from the pics that he sent me, he looks completely ASIAN. Now i mention talking on webcam and he is suddenly taking forever to email me back. Yet he was the one badgering me about sending more pics.

If you were in my situation, what would you think of this!?!
sorry to post it here but this is the most mature section and i’m hoping to get some replies here.
the only reason i mentioned it is b/c they always wanna see what you look like. The 2nd guy was asking me for pics repeatedly.
ruth: I’m wondering the same thing… if a guy brought it up, i’d totally be ok with it. Of course if i knew it was innocent intentions. And i always made my intentions clear. I said here are some more pics and later on, we can talk on webcam if you want. Keywords…. IF YOU WANT. I mean he can always say no. But to just not write back?!? Really really suspicious.
oracleofohio: yeah i see what you’re saying.. thanks for the reply. I just worry that demanding all that early on can scare them away. But then i think that shouldn’t scare away a good man, right? Maybe i can explain about the jerks i’ve met and how i just wanna be sure of who i’m talking to. I met these guys on eharmony though. I always thought eharmony was a good site with probably less freaks and weirdos than the rest. Guess not!

Sometimes i wonder if it’s just a coincidence and i’m just over thinking it? Maybe something else that i said scared them off and not the webcam idea?

After reading a lot of the answers some of you gals give questions about what is cheating for guys I thought I’d make a lilst of what I learned from you.
Okay guys here is my YA list of cheating actions:
1. Sticking your you know what into her you know what
(that one is pretty basic)
2. emailing or texting another gal.
3. chatting with a gal on the internet.
4. having a myspace account or a similar account.
5. sending a gal pictures or recieving them from her.
6. looking at porn
7. talking to a gal on the phone
8. having lunch with a gal
9. paying attention to a gal at a social function
10. looking at a gal as you walk by her
11. talking about a gal
12. sitting next to a gal at a bar
13 having fantasies about another gal
14. smiling when another gal is near by.
I know that I have probably missed a few here but that is what I remember off the top of my head.

So basically guys… being in the presence of another woman is cheating.
Is there any others???

I feel so sorry for men these days. Sigh..
Hon… a cougar is an older woman.
I just feel sorry that men just can’t be men anymore. Being politically correct is really castrating the male these days.
To the answerers who apparently don’t get it…I am trying to point out how ridiculous this is getting. We women have to start living in reality and get a grip.

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