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3 months ago we were sorting out my hubby’s old school books and stuff. i saw a gal’s name repeatedly in his books. he told me he had a huge crush on her through out school yrs. we both laughed abt it and joked abt childish stuff. anyway, last month he told me that he has found that gal (his crush) on facebook. she’s a doctor now and he said he has no intentions of contacting her. i believed him. but today i found his emails. wat shud i do now? he has internet on phone so i was using his phone to check my facebook but instead his facebook opened probably coz he had checked it and it was in the history list. anyway, i saw that gal’s msg in his inbox and i got curious. on further checking, i found 5 or 6 emails exchanged between them.in the emails, it seemed like my hubby was cleverly trying to hit on her without showing much interest. like he said, you know i’ve made a group for our old school mates. why don’t you join and b the first gal there? when she didn’t pay much attention to that proposal in her reply, my hubby quickly changed his tone and in the next mail he told her he’s married. asked her if she’s married and she said she is. now i know it can be something very innocent like just trying to gather old contacts or it can be more coz he shouldn’t have been hiding it from me. since i was totally kool with the whole thing right from the beginning. i was just taking it as a cute relation and i thought it was all ok since my hubby was telling me about it all himself. but then he suddenly stopped telling me when he actually started emailing her. it’s been 2 months now. and when i asked him once, very casually, that how is that gal. he said i have no intentions of contacting her and i donno (btw he was emailing her even at that time when he lied to me that he’s not interested in contacting her)… the other thing is that, he has not contacted any other old classfellows guys or gals. why this one?? now shud i ignore it or confront him? i hope it won’t go any futher than emails, but i don’t believe in anything anymore. its hard to keep trusting someone who lies and hides stuff.

Does it not count as an emotional affair if you’re not cybering with them?

After reading a lot of the answers some of you gals give questions about what is cheating for guys I thought I’d make a lilst of what I learned from you.
Okay guys here is my YA list of cheating actions:
1. Sticking your you know what into her you know what
(that one is pretty basic)
2. emailing or texting another gal.
3. chatting with a gal on the internet.
4. having a myspace account or a similar account.
5. sending a gal pictures or recieving them from her.
6. looking at porn
7. talking to a gal on the phone
8. having lunch with a gal
9. paying attention to a gal at a social function
10. looking at a gal as you walk by her
11. talking about a gal
12. sitting next to a gal at a bar
13 having fantasies about another gal
14. smiling when another gal is near by.
I know that I have probably missed a few here but that is what I remember off the top of my head.

So basically guys… being in the presence of another woman is cheating.
Is there any others???

I feel so sorry for men these days. Sigh..
Hon… a cougar is an older woman.
I just feel sorry that men just can’t be men anymore. Being politically correct is really castrating the male these days.
To the answerers who apparently don’t get it…I am trying to point out how ridiculous this is getting. We women have to start living in reality and get a grip.

I have been having an online affair for several months. It’s a very emotional affair. Although, the guy on the other end is married, and we both know nothing serious will ever come of our online friendship we still discuss a lot of personal stuff. Be it, sexual, emotional, or just life stuff. A few weeks ago my boyfriend found out about the affair. Yes, I do consider it an affair. We talked a lot, and I explained to him why I felt like I needed this other man in my life, and he understands that there are a lot of things he should be doing differently. The biggest being, he needs to get a divorce. He’s been separated from his ex for nearly 8 years, we’ve been together for 5 years. Anyways, our relationship is definitely different now, as he doesn’t trust me. And feels like I’m constantly emailing this guy back and forth at work. I do really love my boyfriend and do not want to leave him, but I just cannot bring myself to stop talking to the other guy…

Tell me what to do….

My husband who’s serving overseas made an online dating profile to meet Russian women. I found out and I’m extremely angry and hurt. Sometimes I feel like it’s not a big deal, but other times I feel I could divorce him for his betrayal. He even sent an email to some Russian woman asking to talk to her and telling her how gorgeous she is…meanwhile, I’m here constantly trying to make life easier for him. I stay up at all hours chatting with him (even though I’m a career woman myself), I send him a package twice a month (sometimes more), I send him messages/emails/offline IM’s keeping him up to speed on what I’m doing, I write him a letter every night…yet his excuse for making this online profile and emailing this woman is because he felt disconnected from me. How would you feel? What would you do?

We have two children and have been married for three years. He recently cheated on me with two girls instant messaging and emailing. He was talking about meeting up with one of them at a hotel. I confronted him about it and he said nothing happend that he was just talking but I also had a affair about a year ago. I really have a hard time trusting him. What do I do?

I have been having an online affair for several months. It’s a very emotional affair. Although, the guy on the other end is married, and we both know nothing serious will ever come of our online friendship we still discuss a lot of personal stuff. Be it, sexual, emotional, or just life stuff. A few weeks ago my boyfriend found out about the affair. Yes, I do consider it an affair. We talked a lot, and I explained to him why I felt like I needed this other man in my life, and he understands that there are a lot of things he should be doing differently. The biggest being, he needs to get a divorce. He’s been separated from his ex for nearly 8 years, we’ve been together for 5 years. Anyways, our relationship is definitely different now, as he doesn’t trust me. And feels like I’m constantly emailing this guy back and forth at work. I do really love my boyfriend and do not want to leave him, but I just cannot bring myself to stop talking to the other guy…

Tell me what to do….

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