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So there’s this guy and he started emailing me saying that he liked somethings about me on 360. We started talking and I am kind of attracted to him. The thing is he’s overseas right now (military) and I don’t know if it would be worth it to get attached to him beings he isn’t coming back to the states for a few months and he’s from Georgia and I’m in Connecticut. So question is do I keep talking to him as a friend or let my feelings be known? Also do you think online relationships stand a chance or are they not worth pursuing?

Where do I begin? I’ve had online flings before, where we chatted on IM and said we liked being together ect in the past. But thats as far as they went. Those usually always last just about a month then die.

Well Dec 5th I started talking to a guy. I live in Florida, him in California. We met off of Youtube of all websites. I made a comment on a Bing Crosby video that I was born in the wrong era. He replied to my comment saying I feel the same way I didn’t think anything of it then. Then I saw his screen name had the word Fiddle in it. I’m mostly Irish and the Fiddle is a big thing to me. I clicked on his screen name thinking I’ll see a middle aged gray haired man…but no, it was a guy in his mid 20’s about my age. I left a comment on his page, saying it was so cool he played the fiddle. The next day I got a personal message on Youtube from him, first we talked about his Fiddle playing, and that we both liked the same style music. 1940’s big ban, crooners, and old Country like bob wills, Eddie Arnold, and even Woody Guthrie. It was so cool to talk to someone my age, throw these names out and they actually knew who they were. We both also love the old Black White Movies and like the same Actors like Jimmy Stewart, and John Wayne, and Gregory Peck. After a week of this, he asked if I had a myspace. After just one day of emailing on myspace, he asked if we can chat on the phone.
That First 2 weeks we would talk on the phone every night for 2-3 hours and never run out of things to say. We’d text each other like 20 times a day…never would 2 hours go by without one texting the other. The chemistry was just amazing, and we even had a few telepathic moments. Like I suggested he should see the movie Shop Around the Corner. The night he watched it, I got off work, I waited patiently for him to finish the movie. When I couldn’t wait any longer I called him, I was gonna ask how much longer? instead he says how did you do that?? I just finished the movie like 10 seconds ago!
Another one..when I think of our future together for some reason the walls in our house are red..don’t know why…so after 2 weeks of this I told him, and he said the hair on him stood up because he wants red walls.
We wanna live in the same part of the country, like to do the same stuff. We both used to be runners, I started running again, and so did he. If there was a such thing of a perfect match for me…he is it! After the first week he was set on using his next vacation time to come to Florida in April, and as of last night he still is.

That first month was great, every single morning he would text me good morning beautiful, and go to Youtube and share songs with me. He still texts me goodmorning..but its not goodmorning beautiful andf he doesn’t send me videos on youtube anymore. He used to text me back right away. now not so much. he went from texting me 20 times a day to more like 5 times now. Monday was the very first night we didn’t talk on the phone since this started, because he was sick. Didn’t talk Tuesday either. Last night we talked but for only 30 minutes. I am really worried that he’s losing interest, and I’m trying to not text him all the time and look like I’m desperate. As of 3pm my time 12 noon his he text me once..I’ve text him 3 times. He went from texting me saying how much he missed me, and saying he loves me…to well hasn’t done any of that in 3 days. I said I loved him yesterday and he said he loved me to, but its not the same as him saying it first. I expressed my concern about him waiting 4 months for me, but he asured me Don’t you worry about me like he was for real.

I’ve never been this serious in a LDR or online relationship before so I’m not sure if this is a sure sign that its going down hill or just calming down?

New to the whole online dating world (wonder if I am too old fashioned for it).

When emailing someone met thru the online personals, is it typical to be flirty with more than one person? This guy and I have been emailing a lot for 5 months now, he is very nice and we met once- which I thought went great.

He says a lot of nice things and all and ends his notes with a kiss yet stays as single on the personals site. Normal or … ? Should I consider it just fun play and nothing more? I think he is fantastic and he is not too far away but am thinking now that maybe he only writes to be nice, or enjoys the ‘risk free’ world of online chat and Nothing more. (sigh)
I should add - we live about a full days drive from one anotherr, neither of us in the position to drive at the time being. Hmmm I guess I should not take it all as serious as I have been. Bummer…..

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Ok I met this girl at the club this weekend, I asked her for her email hoping she would give me her number. Well after her spelling her email address for me several times I finally got it and we left each other with a kiss on the cheek and a smile on each other’s faces. Well Monday I emailed her, I know she probably is playing hard to get, but how long does it usually take a girl to email a guy back?

Cuz I’ve made that before with him, and he didn’t reply with an answer like if he don’t care. But when I do email him he always replied back and very friendly.

I know by now he’s not interested, I’ve being emailing 4 a year now and we’ve become friends, but if I don’t email him he won’t initiate contact. Except for the time he was moving and send me along with a BCC list he was moving and letting know his new email address.

We’ve always being away from each other, and met 2 times only…
Should I ask him or just continue emailing? Is it worth it?

My BF and I have been emailing for quite a long time due to we are far away from each other now. He used to email me every day. However this has changed recently. He doesn’t reply to my last emails quite often and the other day I get no emails from him too, but after two days he start blaming me that I don’t speak to him.
How should I speak to him if he doesn’t bother to reply me.
What should I do?
I asked him, why he hadn’t replied me, and he always tells me he is busy that day to reply me and I should email him myself.

I was seeing a guy i met online for 3 months. In the past two weeks, he started calling/txting/emailing much less. I asked him if he had lost interest in seeing me. He said he likes me but right now his focus is on his career and relationships are very low on his priority list.

I am guessing this is guy language for dumping me, and that it probably further means he’s now seeing someone else.

Guys, is that what it means?

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