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Well Dec 5th I started talking to a guy. I live in Florida, him in California. We met off of Youtube of all websites. I made a comment on a Bing Crosby video that I was born in the wrong era. He replied to my comment saying I feel the same way I didn’t think anything of it then. Then I saw his screen name had the word Fiddle in it. I’m mostly Irish and the Fiddle is a big thing to me. I clicked on his screen name thinking I’ll see a middle aged gray haired man…but no, it was a guy in his mid 20′s about my age. I left a comment on his page, saying it was so cool he played the fiddle. The next day I got a personal message on Youtube from him, first we talked about his Fiddle playing, and that we both liked the same style music. 1940′s big ban, crooners, and old Country like bob wills, Eddie Arnold, and even Woody Guthrie. It was so cool to talk to someone my age, throw these names out and they actually knew who they were. We both also love the old Black White Movies and like the same Actors like Jimmy Stewart, and John Wayne, and Gregory Peck. After a week of this, he asked if I had a myspace. After just one day of emailing on myspace, he asked if we can chat on the phone.
That First 2 weeks we would talk on the phone every night for 2-3 hours and never run out of things to say. We’d text each other like 20 times a day…never would 2 hours go by without one texting the other. The chemistry was just amazing, and we even had a few telepathic moments. Like I suggested he should see the movie Shop Around the Corner. The night he watched it, I got off work, I waited patiently for him to finish the movie. When I couldn’t wait any longer I called him, I was gonna ask how much longer? instead he says how did you do that?? I just finished the movie like 10 seconds ago!
Another one..when I think of our future together for some reason the walls in our house are red..don’t know why…so after 2 weeks of this I told him, and he said the hair on him stood up because he wants red walls.
We wanna live in the same part of the country, like to do the same stuff. We both used to be runners, I started running again, and so did he. If there was a such thing of a perfect match for me…he is it! After the first week he was set on using his next vacation time to come to Florida in April, and as of last night he still is.

That first month was great, every single morning he would text me good morning beautiful, and go to Youtube and share songs with me. He still texts me goodmorning..but its not goodmorning beautiful andf he doesn’t send me videos on youtube anymore. He used to text me back right away. now not so much. he went from texting me 20 times a day to more like 5 times now. Monday was the very first night we didn’t talk on the phone since this started, because he was sick. Didn’t talk Tuesday either. Last night we talked but for only 30 minutes. I am really worried that he’s losing interest, and I’m trying to not text him all the time and look like I’m desperate. As of 3pm my time 12 noon his he text me once..I’ve text him 3 times. He went from texting me saying how much he missed me, and saying he loves me…to well hasn’t done any of that in 3 days. I said I loved him yesterday and he said he loved me to, but its not the same as him saying it first. I expressed my concern about him waiting 4 months for me, but he asured me Don’t you worry about me like he was for real.

I’ve never been this serious in a LDR or online relationship before so I’m not sure if this is a sure sign that its going down hill or just calming down?

Yes, I have my email address added to my recipient list.
No, I don’t beleive I’ve selected and blocked myself as SPAM. When I checked, there were no addresses actually blocked.

Does anyone have an answer?

M

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