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Hubby SECRETLY emailing his high school crush. should i do something? ?
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3 months ago we were sorting out my hubby’s old school books and stuff. i saw a gal’s name repeatedly in his books. he told me he had a huge crush on her through out school yrs. we both laughed abt it and joked abt childish stuff. anyway, last month he told me that he has found that gal (his crush) on facebook. she’s a doctor now and he said he has no intentions of contacting her. i believed him. but today i found his emails. wat shud i do now? he has internet on phone so i was using his phone to check my facebook but instead his facebook opened probably coz he had checked it and it was in the history list. anyway, i saw that gal’s msg in his inbox and i got curious. on further checking, i found 5 or 6 emails exchanged between them.in the emails, it seemed like my hubby was cleverly trying to hit on her without showing much interest. like he said, you know i’ve made a group for our old school mates. why don’t you join and b the first gal there? when she didn’t pay much attention to that proposal in her reply, my hubby quickly changed his tone and in the next mail he told her he’s married. asked her if she’s married and she said she is. now i know it can be something very innocent like just trying to gather old contacts or it can be more coz he shouldn’t have been hiding it from me. since i was totally kool with the whole thing right from the beginning. i was just taking it as a cute relation and i thought it was all ok since my hubby was telling me about it all himself. but then he suddenly stopped telling me when he actually started emailing her. it’s been 2 months now. and when i asked him once, very casually, that how is that gal. he said i have no intentions of contacting her and i donno (btw he was emailing her even at that time when he lied to me that he’s not interested in contacting her)… the other thing is that, he has not contacted any other old classfellows guys or gals. why this one?? now shud i ignore it or confront him? i hope it won’t go any futher than emails, but i don’t believe in anything anymore. its hard to keep trusting someone who lies and hides stuff.