Posts Tagged ‘Overthinking’
my bf chats with this girl he met online thru CGList?
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Here’s m,y situation – I am with my bf for 3 and half yrs now and have known him for 5yrs.
We had rough patches the last three years but always got back . Some of the times we’ve had a fight wud have been coz of another girl and coz he got caught chatting, phoning, emailing or meeting someone he randomly he met in a club or online.
With that said, he recently found a girl on craigslist (as per him in strictly platonic listings) coz he says he wanted someone to talk to. Someone who could tell him the girl’s perspective. It has been going on for months now but now we have no problems..it’s been good but he still chats with her everyday. And last week when I actually saw his chat window pop up he threw some lies at me like school friend then a facebook find and eventually told me the above story. He says she’s just a friend he talks to and said sorry again adn tht he wouldn’t do it again. But i started to think finding a girl online for some reason or the other is almost his habit he cnanot break free from.
Even if its just a friend, I feel bad and feel like he breaks my trust repeatedly doing this stuff, lying and hiding. When I asked him, he says tht I’d never understand the concept of finding a friend online so he lies and hides.
what I wnat to know is if I am overthinking or if this is common ?
He talks about moving in with him and marrying and stuff and these things surface and I am soo confused. I just don’t get it. Please if any of could suggest or explain what could possibly go on in a man’s head, I will sincerely appreciate it.
free emailing
my bf chats with this girl he met online thru CGList?
Posted by admin | Filed under Singles Dating
Here’s m,y situation – I am with my bf for 3 and half yrs now and have known him for 5yrs.
We had rough patches the last three years but always got back . Some of the times we’ve had a fight wud have been coz of another girl and coz he got caught chatting, phoning, emailing or meeting someone he randomly he met in a club or online.
With that said, he recently found a girl on craigslist (as per him in strictly platonic listings) coz he says he wanted someone to talk to. Someone who could tell him the girl’s perspective. It has been going on for months now but now we have no problems..it’s been good but he still chats with her everyday. And last week when I actually saw his chat window pop up he threw some lies at me like school friend then a facebook find and eventually told me the above story. He says she’s just a friend he talks to and said sorry again adn tht he wouldn’t do it again. But i started to think finding a girl online for some reason or the other is almost his habit he cnanot break free from.
Even if its just a friend, I feel bad and feel like he breaks my trust repeatedly doing this stuff, lying and hiding. When I asked him, he says tht I’d never understand the concept of finding a friend online so he lies and hides.
what I wnat to know is if I am overthinking or if this is common ?
He talks about moving in with him and marrying and stuff and these things surface and I am soo confused. I just don’t get it. Please if any of could suggest or explain what could possibly go on in a man’s head, I will sincerely appreciate it.
free emailing