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Monstrous sister-in-law?
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My husband’s sister is a nasty, miserable c**t. Most recently we were all visiting my husband’s parents’ house in late August, and we ended up cutting our visit short because of her (and it is a 2-day drive for us!) She completely ruined my husband’s birthday by screaming at us because we helped my father-in-law set up his laptop computer and improved their internet reception and installed antivirus software. It doesn’t take much talent to do these things, but she said that because we do not have engineering or computer science degrees that we were incapable of doing it correctly. Then she took back my husband’s birthday gift (how tacky). Last summer she screamed at us (again at in-law’s house) for making too much noise at 8 AM because we were getting ready to take our dog for a walk and we woke up her and her husband (who she is now divorcing). Also during her hissy fit she accused me and my husband of faking compassion for her and basically called us insincere and phony. I have always tried to be nice to her, but she doesn;t make it easy. This b***ch had been calling and emailing me asking for dating advice because she found some new guy to date. Since she’s still married I felt awkward about it, but gave her honest and sincere advice. This spring she asked me to help her with immigration and other job-related issues since she is not a US citizen and is here on a work visa and her company was going to lay her off. I spent HOURS on the phone with immigration trying to get info and help her out. She also calls my husband to help her with work projects… so you can see we are sooooooo phony to her! After her latest blow up a few weeks ago, she calls last night crying wanting personal advice and dumping all her problems on my husband and NEVER EVEN APOLOGIZED for her conduct on his birthday!!! I refused to speak to her. She does this all the time, treats people like crap then expects them to just magically want to help her out. And she also tries to make up for things by buying people expensive crap that she can’t even afford!!! Sorry for the rant…. but we will have to see this vicious shrew in November and I told my husband that I will be polite to her for HIS sake and to avoid creating tension for everyone else, but that I wanted nothing to do with her otherwise Meanwhile my mother-in-law is so stupid…. she just makes excuses for her daughter and says that we have to be nice to her because she has so much stress in her life. ***** that! She’s not the only one in the world with problems…. Does anyone else have in-laws that they absolutely despise???? How do you deal with them during family gatherings? I don’t want to be a miserable c**t like her, but she needs to know that there is a price to pay for her actions.