Posts Tagged ‘Personal Stuff’
How much personal computer use should be ok in the workplace?
Posted by admin | Filed under Security
googling, reading newpapers, myspace, various photo sites, online banking, watching various videos from homepages, looking at recipes emailing, all being done on employer time when not looking. How much non work surfing and personal stuff should be acceptable in the workplace?
I can’t stop my online affair?
Posted by admin | Filed under Marriage Divorce
I have been having an online affair for several months. It’s a very emotional affair. Although, the guy on the other end is married, and we both know nothing serious will ever come of our online friendship we still discuss a lot of personal stuff. Be it, sexual, emotional, or just life stuff. A few weeks ago my boyfriend found out about the affair. Yes, I do consider it an affair. We talked a lot, and I explained to him why I felt like I needed this other man in my life, and he understands that there are a lot of things he should be doing differently. The biggest being, he needs to get a divorce. He’s been separated from his ex for nearly 8 years, we’ve been together for 5 years. Anyways, our relationship is definitely different now, as he doesn’t trust me. And feels like I’m constantly emailing this guy back and forth at work. I do really love my boyfriend and do not want to leave him, but I just cannot bring myself to stop talking to the other guy…