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My fiance and I have been together for a long time and have been engaged the last year.

Anyway, I stumble upon her email account looking for an old email address and I find a large list of emails from another man. She has only briefly talked about meeting this guy while she was on vacation but the substance I found in the emails seemed to be extremely personal. She mentions nothing of me and avoids telling him of my family and has written things like, I wish you were here, when can you come, I miss the company, I can’t wait to see you again. They share the exact same beliefs etc.

The final thing that worries me is that they have talked about the memories they share at a specific area they were at on holidays in a secret discourse. I am going completely insane, I don’t know what to think considering she obviously is avoiding or hasn’t told this guy that she’s in a relationship we me. ARRGH, what the hell do I do???? I don’t understand because there is nothing wrong with our relationship, why would she even consider keeping her option open or maybe she thinks she’s found something better than me.

Should I confront her on this or wait and see what happens considering he is not in the country????

my husband and me are around 30 and have been married for 6 years. our relationship has been rocky but the feelings are still quite strong and so we have held it together. We both work for the same place but in different departments and different shifts. A female coworker of my husbands who is a bit younger and thinner(thats my insecurity) has recently started emailing my husband and becoming friendly with him. She seems like a nice girl and I want to believe that this is all just being nice- but It still bothers me that this is happening. It started with them making each other CD’s because my husband listens to his ipod at work and i guess they started talking about the music that they like. Then she emailed him to ask him what he thought of it and if he had a favorite song on it. I didnt know until I found the CD with a nice typed out list of all of the songs. Nothing too romantic but it freaked me out. Then I stumbled upon an email when he didnt know- It was her asking him to go play paintball with her-and the invite was to noone else just him. He hadnt even opened her emails but Im sure they talk at work. She also invited him to her birthday party- she also has a boyfriend-but I know this doesnt always matter. The thing that bothered me is he didnt tell me-once again I just found the invite and he said he might go when I asked. I dont want to be a jealous neurotic wife but this keeps tugging at me. I think my husband is great and honest and they may be friends as coworkers but I think anything can happen if the conditions are layed out, especcially if they get along well and are hanging out and discussing personal things over private email like likes and dislikes. Is it flirting? is it inappropriate? I let him know I was uncomfortable with it and he says I have nothing to worry about.

i have been with my husband for 5 years, this is the second time i have caught him looking for *** online, this time he was actually chatting with the women and saying pretty vulgar things. when i confronted him he said it was a mistake and he doesn’t know why he keeps doing it. i told him i can’t keep forgiving him and i decided to end the relationship. i feel like i can’t trust him anymore last time he said he won’t do it and he still did, i just keep feeling like maybe he has done worse and i am so afraid to keep letting him off. its really hard to end the relationship and he said he doesn’t blame me i just hope i have done the right thing somehow i do feel like its the right thing, somehow i don’t. why do men do this?

I met him on a online dating site, but i was only looking for friendships ( bad past relationships). Anyway, I started talking to this guy for over a week now, like everyday. He’s busy with his band so he goes online late at night and i’m a day person, we email each other. I gave him my number in my second email to him, but he just keeps emailing me, but they are pretty long ones. We kind of flirt and he told me I should visit his city to see him play but he wrote that only in passing. So, is he interested in a friendship or is he taking his time building a relationship? P.S. he is only looking for long term relationships. Tragically, i’m going into the military in 3 months to texas and I haven’t told him yet, what should i do, i’m starting to like him?

Ok, so I met this guy on a dating site and we’ve been emailing eachother back and forth since early January and have spoken on the phone several times. We never met in person because he is in the military and overseas right now but he asked me out on a date and flirts with me on the phone and in email. He says that because of his job it’s difficult for him to have a relationship right now but says he would like to continue getting to know me and looks forward to meeting me when he comes back to the states. Is he really into me or is he just playing mind games? He’s also 7 years older than me (I’m 20 and he’s 27) do you think he thinks I’m young and nieve and is trying to take advantage of me? And do you think he could be also talking to other girls online and calling them as well? He says that before talking to me he chatted with other girls but they scared him off easily because they were being to clingy. He still talks to me so I must be doing something right. What do u think?

My fiance and I have been together for a long time and have been engaged the last year.

Anyway, I stumble upon her email account looking for an old email address and I find a large list of emails from another man. She has only briefly talked about meeting this guy while she was on vacation but the substance I found in the emails seemed to be extremely personal. She mentions nothing of me and avoids telling him of my family and has written things like, I wish you were here, when can you come, I miss the company, I can’t wait to see you again. They share the exact same beliefs etc.

The final thing that worries me is that they have talked about the memories they share at a specific area they were at on holidays in a secret discourse. I am going completely insane, I don’t know what to think considering she obviously is avoiding or hasn’t told this guy that she’s in a relationship we me. ARRGH, what the hell do I do???? I don’t understand because there is nothing wrong with our relationship, why would she even consider keeping her option open or maybe she thinks she’s found something better than me.

Should I confront her on this or wait and see what happens considering he is not in the country????

ive been with my b/f who i live with for about 4yrs now…he is an internet junky who basically lives his life online and spends almost every waking moment online which in its self can be frustrating….
But my question relates to the fact that he is CONSTANTLY emailing and chatting to other women…which includes flirting talking about *** and talking about our relationship… needless to say this can be rather upsetting…so i guess my question is

Do you think what he is doing is wrong or ok ?
what would you do ?
would you put up with it ?
Is this regarded as a from of cheating ?
Is this normal behavior for some1 who’s in love ?

All opinions welcome

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